Story# 2

Story# 2

It is said that love can happen to anyone, anywhere & anytime. it takes a lifetime for someone to fall in love and for someone, the first sight is enough… many names are related to love; for example: destiny, fate, soulmate, made-for-each-other, etc… here's a story i have with both the examples i've given above. 

About a pretty girl in 8th standard (14-15yrs) and a cute, rich, spoiled brat type of guy (18-19yrs)! the girl was rich too… but her family belonged to the political side (indian politics.) it is said that in India, you can never say if a politician is really helping his country or is a culprit spoiling the country UNLESS you're in politics too. the guy saw the girl somewhere and fell in love… Love at first sight… believe me this guy was crazy! god knows where he'd seen her for the first time. but since he did, he started following the girl hard core! 

Can you believe it? just a sight can make the guy so in love… or was it just infatuation? whatever it was, it got the girl in a huge mess. he used to come at the girl's school with his friends. i think there was the first time the girl had seen him. she wasn't into guys… No she wasn't a lesbian. but in those times, it was a crime for a girl to fall in love. not in every family.. but some families could kill their children for just being in love… it still happens in 2013! and i think that was 2005! so back to the story! she saw him there, and he used to come every single day! he knew all school schedules, & there he stood near the girl's car on his bike! there was so sign of contact as the girl always had his driver around. but something was happening… she knew he came there just for her, to see her; through some juniors who were his friend's sister or something. almost an year passed by, but nothing happened practically… but the girl was in love too yet too scared of her family. the girl's dad had a side business of a hookah parlor. the guy used to go there almost every day… he became friends with the girl's little brothers.. everything was going okay. but one day, one of the guy's friends got up & said that the guy was in a relationship with the girl in front of some worker in the parlor… Damn, the girl had got in so much trouble. but her family trusted her… the guy was threatened on his life & was also asked to never show his face again. 

But that guy had guts.. he still followed her every where she went! school, malls, school picnics, etc! oh yeah i remember he'd seen her for the first time at a mall on valentine's day! maybe it was the magic of the magical day! the same thing went on for 3 years… trust me pal, its not easy to follow a girl for three years without ever talking to her or receiving any signs that she's interested in you too… some of the girl's friends started talking to the guy through social networking and warned him about the girl's family and also asked him to stop! as if the guy didn't know. but did he stop? there was no way he would! 

And then the girl made someone tell him that she's not interested in him! what could she do… knowing him, even talking to him could get her in a huge trouble… (her uncles carried guns with them) more than that, there was a chance the guy could have gotten killed! After getting to know about her feelings, the guy stopped following her but i don't think there was any difference with his feelings. since the girl's parents knew him, there was no chance they'd get them married. the girl got married to some other guy… 

but soon after their wedding, not even six months, her husband died. her in laws thought she was a jinx, a bad luck and threw her out of their house… the family had to accept her back. but they weren't happy of her being there with them. you know indian traditions… A widow is always considered as bad luck! she's not allowed to even have colors in her life… she needs to wear white her entire life. she cannot attend marriages or any event of happiness.. i don't think any girl deserves that… when a man's wife dies, there are no obligations for him... He can married again and start his life in a new way.. But a girl? There's no chance. Everyone knows its not fair, yet follows the so called "tradition" it didnt matter to any one. But it did matter to him, he couldn't see her like that…i think it was totally destiny that  someday they accidentally met again… he noticed her white clothes. he was still ready to accept her.! but of course, he had to face family, tradition and all that bullshit. and even the poor traditionally grown girl thought it was wrong! she was young, she had all her rights to life, but she couldn't have 'em because her husband died? common! the guy was real persistent and wanted her in-spite of all of it! And as i said he was crazy! He could do anything. He actually even did every possible thing to get his love. Even got beaten up by the girl's family. ( typical indian hero)

after a few months, she finally agreed… they had to run away. there was no way her or his family would have accepted their wedding…

Nobody gets everything… you need to loose something in order to get something. i think their choice was right… 

it was a new beginning for the girl! And the guy got his first and last love! <3

Story# 1

story# 1

Love Story of the Day.

The first story is about a girl who had been betrayed in love so badly that she had stopped believing in love and decided not to love someone ever again in her entire life. But she didn't know that no one cannot control falling in love. 

After her break-up, she was sad and according to her, the most depressed person on earth. 

Sometimes people love someone so badly that getting apart from them can make them forget smiling. she was one among them. the girl was pretty and many guys adored her. But after her break up, she even stopped looking at other guys. The story begins in a local bus. there she was, sitting on the seat looking out of the window, sad as usual. And there comes a guy who looks pretty decent and when he looks at her, he feels a little attracted towards her. he keeps starring at her, but the girl didn't even look at him. there was something about her that he couldn't stop looking at her, a kind of decency on her face. the girl got down from the bus and the guy captured her picture in his brain. Who knew he'd see again the same day in college? It was the first day of college, engineering, third year for the guy and first year for the girl. Their first actual meeting was in a welcome party for the students in 1st year. All three batches of the college were supposed to organize it and of-course the guy was a part of the organisation. he was a fun-loving guy and also the host of the party. he was giving a speech standing on the stage and there he sees her again and gets lost in her. which causes him to pause his speech. he gets off the stage, handing the mic to someone else to follow the girl. he makes her stop, tries to talk to her. but the girl thought he was there to flirt and just avoided him. he chased her for a few days and they became some kind of so called friends. She only agreed when he said that he just wants to be friends with her. an year passed and they became best friends, the guy's feeling did grow for her but he couldn't express them as he knew that after knowing her feelings the girl would go way from him. the girl did develop some kind of feelings for him but lied to herself as she didn't want to fall in love again. The guy was a senior and it was time for prom, he hesitated to ask the girl as he thought she would get a wrong signal and would go away from him. so he asked someone else to go with. and the girl got jealous. she did go to the prom but, with someone else. the guy didn't expect to see her there and was burning by seeing her with someone else. he grabbed her hand took her outside and said "how could you go out with some other guy?" the girl replied, "if you can, why can't I?" there was a very awkward silence after that. the guy dropped her home and was wondering why she said that?! And on the other side, the girl realized she loved him but decided not to tell him because she believed she'll always get betrayed. and also decided to stay away from him.. the guy was going to graduate from college, he knew he would never see her again as his father was going to send him abroad for further studies. he decided to express his feelings to her. A day before graduating, he met her with a bouquet of red roses in his hand and guess where he proposed her? in the same local bus he saw her for the first time. he sat down on his knees and said "this bus is special for me and in this special place i wanna tell you that I've been loving you since the first time i saw you here" the girl was stunned and just walked out without saying anything. the guy thought she didn't love him and going abroad will help him move on. the next day after his graduation he was sad as she didn't even come to see him graduate. But as he walked out, she was standing right there waiting for him. the guy thought she wanted to talk about what happened the day before and that he was going to reject his feelings. And as he approached her to apologize for his feelings and for creating a scene in the bus. she slapped him and said "what took you so long to confess your love?" the guy was so shocked yet so amazed to hear that. she hugged him, he hugged her back. and this is not the end, its a new Beginning.

Moral: Don't take your faith off love just because someone broke your heart. because love didn't break your heart, a wrong person did. don't avoid the right person because of what you got from the wrong one.

Introductory post!

The blog is about different kinds of love stories happening in Desi areas. that is India, Pakistan, Bangladesh.. etc. people fall in love all around the world but, you cannot compare any of their love stories with a Desi love story as there is a lot of drama added to a Desi love story. Only in a Desi love story will a guy fight the girl's father's goons, somehow impress the girl's father and marry her. Only in a Desi love story will a girl fall for a guy so badly that she will go against her family for the guy but not marry him until her father agrees for their wedding. Beware!! this blog may also have some heartbreak stories. such stories are not to fill your heart with sorrow & pity or your eyes with tears, but to give a lesson about what can happen with you and how you can avoid such situations and heartbreaks. Love stories can be of a million kinds and I'm here to let you know those stories. If you think your love/heartbreak story is unique and people should know about it, email it to me at desigirl1096@gmail.com. people from all around the world can share their love stories here! this blog is not to dominate any other ethnicity or their love.